Relax
Be A Buddha: Dogen Zenji On Life and Death
Whenever and wherever I can, I try to let go of, or at least question, my well-worn thoughts and opinions. I also try to come unglued from my habitual, knee-jerk reactions. I try to let go because if I’m holding on, if I’m bound by habit and reactivity, I’ll be sure to miss the breathing, pulsing changes of life happening in every moment. And if I miss what’s happening now, I’m surely bound to add to the suffering in the world.
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Relax! Really, You Can Do It!
The very best teaching my first Zen teacher gave me was: No matter what is happening and, no matter if it’s happening “on the inside” or “on the outside”, first and foremost, be aware of what’s happening and do your best to relax. Fear might be happening, be aware of fear and relax. If joy is happening, know joy and relax. If a flat tire is happening, be aware of that and relax. Another way to say this is: be aware of what’s happening, notice, and let go of any drama. Simply work with what’s happening as calmly as possible.